Learn to listen to yourself and become aware of how to read your emotions. There are abilities that humans are capable of doing that aren't taught in the traditional sense. Once you understand how to do that, you can decide a path and begin moving forward. It takes diligent effort and work to be successful in doing anything. There's no easy street, and you will most likely change direction a few times. That's OK. No journey is a straight line. As long as you begin, the path will take you to where you are meant to go and there won't be a destination. The journey never ends. Choose a path, begin the journey and put in more than the required effort and you'll define your own version of success. It might be quite different from what you first believed.